Palliative Care

Palliative Care is a very difficult subject for most people, especially friends and family of the terminally ill patient or patient with a life-threatening illness.

To help the reader understand the operation of Palliative care and services in Australia, we've included the following interview from a nurse working in community care.

If you are a home carer, you may find the information at www.caring-terminally-ill.com useful.

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Interviewer:
Hello. Can you tell me more about what you do in your work in Palliative care?

Community Nurse:
OK...Well my job is a community palliative care nurse.

I visit my patients in their own homes, that have family and friends around supporting them,
so they can stay at home.

T
hese people then have access to a community palliative care service that is usually provided by a hospice or hospital.

The nurses and doctors work together in visiting the patient provided care as its need to whatever extent that is needed. It may just start out as support visits to allow the patient to express thoughts and feelings on his/her illness and their diagnosis, then this may move to hygiene care as they loose their ability to shower or bathe unaided, and all the while the doctor is visiting take care of pain management.

Interviewer:
Thank you. How do people access these services, how much does it cost, who pays for it, etc.

Community Nurse:
The palliative care service is provided free of charge. Wait on.... The following information from the Bethlehem Hospice in Melbourne describes what we do...

Bethlehem Health Care specialises in the care of people with active progressive disease which is incurable. The Palliative Care Service provides in-patient assessment, management, respite services, community based nursing, medical and allied health services to patients. Bethlehem Health Care offers a continuum of care with assessment, symptom management, pastoral and spiritual support, bereavement follow-up across inpatient and community settings. These services are provided in conjunction with other community agencies and the person’s own GP.

Through our inpatient and community services, we aim to provide people with care and support services that achieve best practice in medical, allied health and nursing care throughout the duration of their illness.

A not for profit health care service specializing in the care of people with progressive neurological disorders and other life threatening illnesses.

Interviewer:
Thank you. Who pays for the service and do the families need more information than this. For example, on death and dying?

Community Nurse:
They get all that through pastoral and spiritual support, bereavement services. Its all connected through the hospice.

In the Community:
   Community Palliative Care Service
   Regional Consultancy Service
   Allied Health Services
   Bereavement follow-up
   Grief-line
   Volunteers

In the Hospital
   Palliative Care Wards
   Pastoral Care
   Bereavement follow-up
   Allied Health Services
   Volunteers

In the Home
   Community Palliative Care Service
   Allied Health Services
   Bereavement follow-up
   Pastoral Care
   Volunteers

Interviewer:
OK. So the families have to contact the hospice to access the information and resources?

Community Nurse:
That's right...

If they speak to their doctor about wanting palliative care then all this information is given to them after the doctor has referred them. A doctor has to refer the patient to palliative care once it's established that they have a life threatening / terminal illness

Interviewer:
Is it the same nationally or just in Victoria?

Community Nurse:
Australia wide

Interviewer:
Does the system work well or does it have "kinks" that cause upset or feelings of being "in a system", rather than feeling that the patient and family are real people?

Community Nurse:
If that person is actually living in Victoria then moves to another state after being referred to a palliative care service then that palliative care service then organises the PCS in the state they are moving to, to take on that patient. It works very well...

They are not just a number in palliative care. All patients and their families are taken on by the service. And when the patient dies the family have the choice to use the bereavement services,
pastoral care services and griefline.

Interviewer:

OK. But all these services are run by people that they don't know personally. Isn't there a feeling that the family is being invaded by "outsiders"?

Community Nurse:

No. Most people are happy to receive and even know we have services like this. This allows patients to die in their own homes so they dont have to be admitted into a hospital setting.

I've never had anyone unhappy to have me in their home... even doing hygiene visits. I shower bathe, sponge patients. I sponge patients that are unable to move...the feel of another person makes them feel good, like that they are cared for.

Community palliative care is by far a fantastic service. They feel closer, they are happy that they could do that for their relative/friend/partner.

Wouldn't you rather die at home? I would. In my own surroundings, around my own things, around the people I care about and who care for me to help me die at home.

As far as I'm concerned its very humane superior nursing. It beats dying in a hospital.

Interviewer:
I guess it depends on where the best care is available. I have feelings that a family may interfere if I was dying at home, out of best intentions, of course. Does that happen at all?

Community Nurse:

I haven't come across it at all

Interviewer:

That's really good to hear. Do any other problems arise due to the family being around?

Community Nurse:

Only that people sometimes are in grief even before the patient has died, because they know the loss is coming.

Interviewer:
What advice do you have for the family, to help themselves and the patient?

Community Nurse:
Bereavement services are then recommended or a pastoral care worker.

I have to go now. I hope I've helped?

Interviewer:
Thank you. Yes, you've been most enlightening.

Community Nurse:
It's best to look up hospices on the Web and look at the services and how its all provided. For Instance http://www.bethlehem.org.au. That's one of the hospices in Melbourne. There's lots more information there. I'm just a nurse not a hospital administrator.

Interviewer:
I think that the nurses are at the "coal face", so to speak. So they understand what REALLY is happening.

Community Nurse:
That's true...but I do know one thing....palliative care is the best service for people with incurable/ terminal diseases, they look after not just the patient...not just the family but for the entire as a whole.

Interviewer:
Yes. keep up the good work. I'm sure the families would have great difficulty doing all this on their own?

Community Nurse:
Oh yes...very very true!!!!!....most of them rely on us to be there. They need us, want us involved. We have so much feedback that verify what we do

Interviewer:
How does it affect you emotionally?

Community Nurse:
I'm happy that I can be apart of a team that helps people to stay at home, so that they can be surrounded by their family friends...whoever.

Community Nurse:
I'm not often saddened by a patients death, but happy for them; that I helped them in their last months of life, and that i have laughed and joked and been there when they wanted to talk.

Interviewer:

And then do you feel a sense of "loss" when they are gone?

Community Nurse:

I don't get emotionally close. I feel emotion for them while they are sick but not "emotionally close". Hard to describe, but patients die every day. And everyday they're replaced with a new ones, so I help them. Some patients I see for a few months...others I see just the once

Interviewer:
Many thanks. The "full circle of life", isn't it?

Community Nurse:
Yes.

 

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